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Olivia's avatar

You say things far more eloquently than I ever could, but I think the instinct to war is never lost, only suppressed. There is an enormous rage inside a lot of people that comes out in terrible ways, whether it's raging on social media or spewing vitriol at another person. I'm always fascinated how easy it is to make a complete stranger completely lose their mind over a simple question: "why are you so angry?"

I think the war time of the past generation has a nostalgia because even though people were getting shot at and blown apart on the battlefield, society still knew how to be kind and decent to each other. There was value in simple things because resources were scarce. Music and art was memorable, and melodic, because the soul needed to sing and stay optimistic.

There's more to say but I think that's enough for now. Thanks as always for another great post. I love your description of your grandma!

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Natalia's avatar

To grow we need resistance and sometimes turmoil. War is an easy way to provide that much of resistance. It is much harder to make yourself grow in a setting of normality and boredom. War provides a noble excuse for excitement of survival. When boredom after the battle settles in, try to be still and see if the inner battle can answer some questions of growth.

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